By Admin 
In today’s time, this may sound quite bitter, but what Hitambrish Guru has said is not based on sentimentality, but on reality. We all harbor a misconception in ourselves that if the other person is not listening to us, then he is stubborn, ignorant and wrong. But actually the truth is much deeper than this.
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The main focus of Guru Hitambrish’s talks is destiny and values. Every human being does not come into this world with a blank slate, he brings with him the actions, rituals and mental tendencies of his previous birth, his way of thinking, his way of taking decisions, everything is already formed.
No matter how much you try to explain things from outside, he will continue to be pulled internally in the direction where his nature and actions are taking him.
Guru Hitambrish gave strict rules
This is the reason why parents get tired of explaining to their children, husband and wife to each other or friends, but nothing changes. People call it stubbornness or foolishness, but in reality it is an internal compulsion. Even if a person understands your words, he is still unable to move against his values, like trying to divert a flowing river with one’s hands.
Guru Hitambrish is telling a very strict but true rules here-
You can’t change anyone,
Neither to your child, nor to your partner, nor to your brother or sister.
So what does it mean to sit idly by? not at all! The God who has given the problem has also given the solution, prayer and harmony. When you try to bring about change in someone, the ego is at work, I am right, you are wrong, which creates conflict, but when you pray for him, you do not become an obstacle in his path, but give him a chance for change from within.
The biggest and deepest sentence is this –
Only your mind needs to explain.
This is sadhana in the real sense. We waste our energy trying to improve the outside world, when the real mess lies within our minds. Our expectations, our anger, our sadness, if your mind is calm, then no matter what others do, they cannot destabilize you.
The Guru said this very clearly that relationships are not permanent. Every soul comes into your life for some time and then goes on its way. That is why it is wisely said that as long as we are together, do not fight, but maintain peace.
Overall, his words teach us that give up the insistence on improving others, concentrate on your mind today, this is the real happiness.
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